7. Handle Criticism Like a Charismatic Pro - Deepstash
7. Handle Criticism Like a Charismatic Pro

7. Handle Criticism Like a Charismatic Pro

Charismatic people don't get defensive. They get curious.

  • Thank people for feedback instead of justifying your actions
  • Ask clarifying questions to understand their perspective better
  • Show you value their input even when you disagree

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Charisma isn't about being the loudest person in the room. It's about making others feel heard, valued, and inspired when they're with you. Start with presence, add genuine warmth, and back it up with quiet confidence. The rest will follow naturally.

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